What does that phrase mean to you??
To me it's knowing that I am in a safe place, a place where I can speak my mind, I can laugh, I can play, I can cry, I can rage, I can misunderstand and I can disagree ..... and at the end of the day when the night comes and I lay my head down on my pillow I KNOW that I am not being judged and I am not being put down or belittled.
Recently, I had a disagreement with a friend, a very dear friend, a friend of over two years standing and did this tiff affect our friendship........... well, from my perspective not a jot - we both spoke our minds, we both said our piece and then we carried on .........no fall out, no tears, no tantrums!!
When I first started fully committing to my calling as a Witch, I heard the words In Perfect Love and Perfect Trust - and I assumed that meant that everyone I would meet as a Witch would automatically love and trust me - as I loved and trusted them........ I had my eyes opened very early on my Path that this isn't so - this may be part of the Rede - but as every Pagan is not a Witch - not every Witch lives the Rede, some may 'talk the talk' - but are very unwilling to 'walk the walk'
Trust is earned and once it's broken it's extremely difficult to get back but ............ when you are in Perfect Love and Perfect Trust with the others in your life then you are extremely Blessed because then you can truly Be all that you are meant to Be, there is no artifice, no hiding your emotions and no feeling you can't be honest!
For want of a better word ............ it's Perfect!!!!
love and blessings to you all
bunni x x x